Author: Kristine Kirschke

HLG Attends AFCC’s 60th Anniversary Conference

Herring Law Group attorney, Taylor Fuller, recently attended the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts’ (AFCC) annual conference 60 Years of Asking the Difficult Questions in Los Angeles. 

HLG is a member of the AFCC, which is the “interdisciplinary, international association of professionals dedicated to improving the lives of children and families through the resolution of family conflict.”  It focuses on “serving the needs of children among those who work in and with family law systems, encouraging education, research and innovation and identifying best practices.”  While the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (aaml.org) and the International Academy of Family Lawyers (iafl.com), in which HLG is also involved, focus on all manner of family law concerns, the AFCC narrowly focuses on children, custody and parenting.

The Conference’s presenters included many of the nationally prominent mental health and parenting/custody professionals with whom HLG regularly works.

Through Taylor, we dove deeper into a variety of developing issues and concepts, particularly on the last 60 years of evolving in the complex process of resolving parenting time disputes, navigating high conflict custody issues in the presence of domestic violence, the consequences of Kayden’s Law on parent-child reunification, and the new AFCC and APA Guidelines on Parenting Plan/Child Custody Evaluations.

At the Conference, Taylor’s other areas of focus included:

  • Asking difficult questions in addressing parent-child contact problems.
  • The pros and cons of the various popular post-separation parenting apps
  • Demystifying Hague Convention.
  • Navigating cases with “too much conflict, not enough trust and respect.”
  • Identifying and dealing with personality disorders.

Taylor learned strategies for fostering resilience in clients who navigate co-parenting in the face of mental health issues and/or personality disorders. HLG possesses a nuanced understanding of non-adversarial and hybrid dispute resolution processes, domestic violence, shared parenting plans, developmental needs of children, parent-child contact problems, and substance misuse in parenting disputes.

HLG remains a strong supporter of the AFCC.  We thank Taylor for her enthusiastic participation!

Herring Law Group Supports the AAML Foundation

This is the 61st anniversary of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. One of its top achievements was the creation of the AAML Foundation in 1990. As past-president Cary Mogerman puts it, the Foundation provides our Fellows with a means — in addition to the application of our own professional skills — of directly assisting families and, in particular, children who have been adversely affected by the dysfunction within their family and its resulting breakup. I am proud to belong to a professional organization that includes providing charitable support for the families and communities we serve as one of its key objectives.

Mogerman emphasizes that family dysfunction is an undeniable part of the human condition. It is not aberrant in its existence, and the people affected by it are not outliers. Our Fellows know that a civil society needs predictable, reliable methods of ending the untenable, through the application of equitable laws and procedures. But the work does not stop at the end of any case — as the families we serve will be dealing with the wounds of their dysfunction and restructuring for years.

The Foundation’s goal is to support community resources for those post-breakup families.

Since its inception, it has provided a total of 441 grants totaling more than $2.1 million to grantees throughout the U.S. The most recent was a special one to UNICEF, to assist its work for the children in Ukraine.

Closer to home, Herring Law Group previously lobbied for and gained the Foundation’s funding for a mediation center in Ventura County, the Conejo Free Clinic in Thousand Oaks, and Casa Serena in Santa Barbara. I am a Lifetime Member and HLG is an annual contributor. The Foundation is proof that when people come together and work together, they can do great things toward positively impacting many families across our country.

Herring Law Group Leads another Successful AAML Institute of Trial Advocacy!

Three years ago, Orange County family law legend, Eleanor Stegmeier, asked me to serve as Dean of the 2023 Institute of Trial Advocacy our Southern California Chapter of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers presents annually. She was then our Chapter’s President and respected that each Institute takes three years of planning and preparation.

I knew what she was asking. As a then-new Fellow of the AAML, I previously served as Dean for our 2010 Institute. I respected it as a huge commitment. Eleanor is a particularly persuasive lawyer – and she got my “yes” again (only two other Fellows have served as Dean twice)!

The results were hugely successful. We held the event – our 31st  — during the Martin Luther King weekend, January 13-16, 2023, at the Balboa Bay Resort in Newport Beach. Our theme was New Waves in Family Law. Our focus was presenting continuing education programs designed to assist the advanced family law practitioner in preparing for and presenting a case in court.

Beginning in 2020 I spoke with various Fellows, expert witnesses, and judicial officers toward developing our many programs. They included California Rules of Court/Family Code Interplay, How to Present a Case (presented in three parts over the weekend), Pre-Appellate Considerations in Trial Court, Evidence Code Privileges and Policies, Family Law Presumptions at Trial, Discovery Referees, Proving and Defending Domestic Violence Claims, Creative Procedures for Enforcing Orders and Judgments, Family Law Tax Update, Managing Expert Witnesses, “Hybrid” Custody Evaluations toward Settlements, Parentage Litigation Update, and Audio-visual Presentations in Hearings and Trials.

All proved excellent. Sincere thanks to our 29 presenters!

The weekend’s social highlight was Saturday Night’s black tie formal Gala. There we feted California Supreme Court Chief Justice Patricia Guerrero as our annual Family Law Person of the Year. This was the second time we enjoyed the presence of a Chief Justice – Chief Justice Ronald M. George (ret.) was our 2010 honoree (when I first served as Dean). Friend and Fellow, Judge Laura H. Miller (San Diego County Superior Court), gave a hilarious and heartfelt presentation, and Chief Justice Guerrero accepted with gratitude and grace. 

The same evening, we presented our annual Distinguished Jurist award to The Honorable Linda L. Miller (ret.). Friend and Fellow, Justice Sheila Prell Sonenshine (ret.), introduced her by describing their many years together as then up-and-coming female lawyers in a not-always-welcoming environment at the time. Judge Miller enthusiastically embraced the honor with her family proudly watching.

We capped off the night with an animated performance by “Ventura locals gone big time” and friends, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy! – Crazy!

Over the three years of preparation, our team poured hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of hours into the event. While so many worked hard, some especially helped make it an Institute to remember:

*          Co-dean, Stephen Hamilton, is a brother in San Luis Obispo County. He is true blue,      and he enthusiastically leaned in.

*          Herring Law Group Legal Administrators, Kristiné Kirschke and Lynn Goodman, were (and are in all ways) smart, dedicated, and hard-working. They stressed as much as me (and that was a lot!) toward “making everything perfect” — and they accomplished that!

*          Dana O’Masters, with Cage & Miles in San Diego, supervised our attendee and sponsor “numbers and receipts.”

*          Los Angeles family law maven, Steven A. Mindel, ran point in retaining and organizing our many sponsors.

*          Saul Gelbart, from San Diego, facilitated our Person of the Year logistics.

*          Sandra Mayberry, from San Diego, provided me “therapy” when needed (a lot!), and assisted in all ways.

*          My wife, Penny, enthusiastically and meaningfully supported all our efforts – and me!

The Institute’s countless obligations on our time and attention presented as a tsunami, dramatically rising in July – August 2022 and cresting through the event. Simultaneously, one of HLG’s big Santa Barbara cases started “blowing up” in mid-December – forcing us to finalize and present the Institute while simultaneously handling “hot litigation” heading straight into a multi-day trial (which ended in a rare directed verdict in our client’s favor!). The considerable time spent and stress suffered were worth it. HLG proudly reiterated itself as an ongoing leader in California family law, while exhibiting grace under pressure throughout.

(… but there will not be a third Institute with me serving as the Dean!)

Herring Law Group Welcomes Jack Ucciferri

HLG welcomes our newest attorney, Jack Ucciferri! A long-time Santa Barbara resident, Jack brings a unique resume as a local businessman now engaged in the full scope of family law.

Jack attended two tours at the University of California at Santa Barbara. In 2002 he graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in political science and history. He dove straight into business, co-founding and successfully exiting Giant’s Foot Surf in Nicaragua. He went on to consult for Ecometriks LLC (now Solar Census), serve as Board Treasurer for the Fund for Santa Barbara, and work as a Registered Investment Advisor Representative and Research & Advocacy Director for Harrington Investments, Inc.

Nearly ten years later, Jack attained a Master of Arts at UCSB in Global Political Economy. He accomplished this while serving as the Regional Coordinator for Toniic Impact Investor Network. Afterward, he founded OurTown Property Management in Santa Barbara.

During and following law school at the Santa Barbara and Ventura Colleges of Law (graduating in 2020), Jack clerked and then practiced law at the Santa Barbara offices of the national powerhouse, Brownstein Hyatt Farber Schreck. Seeking opportunities toward “doing good” for individuals and families in family law, he changed gears by joining a Ventura family law firm before coming to HLG.

Jack enjoys speaking Spanish whenever the occasion presents. In his spare time, you are likely to spot him adventuring with his family in the hills of Ojai or relishing the beaches of the Central Coast.

With Jack on board, we are now five attorneys strong and more capable than ever!