AAML’s Free Trial Basics Seminar

Since 2015, the Southern California Chapter of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers has annually presented a comprehensive free program, Trial Basics Seminar. Herring Imming was pleased to originally conceive and establish TBS. I am pleased to remain the event’s ongoing Dean.

TBS is geared toward family law lawyers with limited trial experience wanting to learn basic trial skills from the AAML’s experts. We present TBS to reach out to our community, improve the skills of less-experienced family law lawyers and give back to our profession. At this point, we have taught nearly 1,500 attorneys!

TBS was originally presented as an “all live” event – limited to just 100 family law lawyers in a hotel conference room. During the pandemic, we switched to Zoom. Through that, we saw we could substantially expand our audience — including attorneys throughout the State. During the main seminar, our audience can still “stay close” by continually interacting with us via Zoom’s “chat” and “Q&A” features.

We present TBS in two parts. The main seminar will be presented by Zoom all day on Friday, April 4, 2025. The companion live Practicum will be at UC Irvine all day on Saturday, April 12, 2025.

  • Substantial MCLE credits will be provided.
  • Family Law guru, Garrett Dailey, will, as always, moderate the main seminar.
  • TBS is still presented at no charge.

TBS is a fast-moving event, including approximately twenty presentations throughout the main seminar. The “A-Z” topics range from motions in limine, opening statements, direct examinations, cross examinations, presentation of documentary and electronic evidence, expert witness considerations, closing arguments, and more.

The AAML was founded in 1962, “to encourage the study, improve the practice, elevate the standards and advance the cause of matrimonial law, to the end that the welfare of the family and society be protected.” Our nearly 1,650 Fellows cover all 50 states.

We recognize each family law case has different needs. We respect the availability of various alternative courses of resolution. But if a case cannot be settled, then the consequence is that the courts are there to decide the issues. Our job is to be prepared to expertly litigate those cases to their logical ends.

Anyone interested in attending TBS may register here: www.herringimming.com/events.

Please feel free to contact me if you might have any questions or comments: Gregory W. Herring, Herring Imming LLP: 559 San Ysidro Road, Ste. G, Santa Barbara, California 93108; 805.983.6452 x100; [email protected]. Legal Administrator, Kristiné Kirschke, would also be glad to assist: [email protected].

Taylor Fuller Appointed Co-editor of Santa Barbara Lawyer

Herring Imming lawyer, Taylor Fuller, has for years dedicated herself to the Santa Barbara County Bar Association. In 2025, she steps into the role of Co-editor of its monthly publication, Santa Barbara Lawyer. Scott Jaske joins her as the other Co-editor.

Taylor writes, “[a]t its core, SBL is about connection – connection to ideas, to developments in the law, and most importantly, to one another.” Taylor and Scott hope to build on SBL’s tradition of excellence while introducing diverse and timely content reflecting our profession’s evolution.

Taylor’s work coincides with HI’s extensive service to our family law community – in Santa Barbara, Ventura County, San Luis Obispo, and beyond. Through our writings, presentations, and volunteer leadership, we are thought leaders helping to raise the standard of practice for the benefit of our fellow attorneys, the courts, and the families we serve. As Muhammad Ali explained:  “Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on Earth.”

Taylor and Scott invite a wide variety of articles that not only “inform but inspire.” To submit a piece, please contact Taylor at [email protected].

Court of Appeal Affirms Herring Imming’s Trial Court Results, Protecting the Integrity of Adoptions

The Court of Appeal recently issued its written Opinion concerning a San Luis Obispo County Superior Court case in which Herring Imming successfully represented a biological mother and her wife toward protecting their pre-teen daughter. The case, now known as C.C. v. L.B. (24 DJDAR 10911 (11/26/24) (DCA2/6)), affirmed Greg and Ruston’s hard-fought trial court victory.

The facts involved a sperm donor (“donor”) who, shortly following the child’s birth, consented to a final written adoption order. The order (1) added the biological mother’s wife as the child’s second parent and (2) permanently waived the donor’s parenting, financial, and other rights to the child. The order expressly gave the child’s legal parents – the two mothers — but not the donor or the courts, the right to decide whether and with whom their daughter spends her time. Relying on this, the mothers over the years informally allowed the donor significant access to their daughter, and he and she developed a close relationship.

But as their daughter approached her teens, she reported he began acting strangely and abusively. Her reports would shock and alarm any parent. Her mothers protectively stopped the donor’s visits. At least initially, they sought a “time out” to investigate and allow their daughter time to process, heal, and establish some agency.

The donor aggressively responded. He filed suit, asserting “third parent” standing and demanding immediate full access and rights to the child. (California is one of a few states acknowledging third parents including when a partner of one of the biological parents becomes a legal parent through adoption.) As the case threatened to morph into a full-blown trial, the mothers retained Herring Imming.

Greg and Ruston pressed for pre-trial termination through a challenge to the donor’s “standing.” They argued he lacked the legal ability to bring suit in the first place since parenting laws do not allow him to ignore the consequences of the final adoption order including his waivers. The San Luis Obispo County trial court agreed. It dismissed the case, ruling the donor lacked any ability to establish parentage.

When the donor appealed, Herring Imming, with appellate specialist, Claudia Ribet, represented the mothers at the Court of Appeal.

In his thoughtful post-Opinion analysis, retired Judge Hank Goldberg (writing as an outside commentator) suggests, “[p]erhaps C.B. v. L.B holds that … the adoption order … terminates any future claim to custody or visitation.” We think so.

The Opinion has gained attention from same-sex adoptive parents and potential parents – and their considerable network of supporters and advisors. But its scope is not limited to same-sex adoptions. If a biological parent waives all rights through adoption orders absent a post-adoption contact agreement (“PACA”) (as was the case here), those waivers must be respected.

C.C. v. L.B protects the integrity of adoptions by confirming the rights of post-adoptive parents toward managing a donor’s post-waiver access – or not — to their adoptive child.

Best Wishes to Victoria Diffenderfer

I started my career with ten years of civil litigation (insurance defense for syndicates with Lloyds of London, and business and real estate disputes), then added my family law specialization onto that. Herring Imming attorney of one and a half years, Victoria Diffenderfer, has announced she is going to go the other way around! She is moving from our family law world into non-family law civil litigation. As of January 10, she will be leaving Herring Imming for another firm.

Victoria was typically gracious in reporting this – expressing thanks for the opportunities to learn and grow HI provided. Ruston and I, in turn, appreciate her brains, client communication skills, and hard work.

We wish Victoria the best going forward. We expect to see her shine as she forges her new path!